Gary Ryan

@GaryRyanUlvaeus is a 53 year old Gay Male from Flint, Wales, United Kingdom. He is looking for Friendship, Relationship, Chat, Workout Partner, Casual and Other Activities.

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I'm very open, honest and straight forward and I'm well known for it lol.
I'm a genuine kinda guy, sincere and loyal to the core, I have a loving, caring nature and I have a big heart too, I'm just a big old softy really, I'm no looker, but I'm not ugly, I do scrub up well when needed lol, I try take care of myself best I can, I don't have the body beautiful, I never will, not after all my weight lose and countless operations over the years, I have some lose skin on my body because of all the weight I've lost in the past, I also have some health issues too but I'm not dying, at least not yet anyway lol.

I treat my friends like family because that's exactly what they mean to me as my own family haven't always been there for me in the past, I'm a people person and I tend to make friends very easily whether I keep them is another story and because I'm such a straight talker and tell it like it is people tend to think I'm being facetious and nasty with them, I'm not, not at all, I just tell it like it is, plain and straight.

I cannot abide liars or people who cheat on loved ones, I know only to well how that feels, as it's happened to me on more than on occasion, I've been there, done that and wore the T-Shirt, I'm looking for that special guy to share my life with, someone who will love me for what's on the inside and not someone who is shallow and fixated on looks, we all get old and the body withers, I'm looking for a straight acting guy not someone who is camp or overly feminine as I have an effeminate nature and speak with a somewhat effeminate tone, I like a man to be a man if you get my drift, I'm looking for someone who can put a smile on my face and treat me well too, a mature guy who's well grounded, someone who can joke around, be silly at times but be sensible when the time comes, someone who's not afraid to show there feelings and emotions in private and in public.

When I'm in a relationship I always put my man at the centre of my universe and will always stand by him through thick and thin, no matter what comes our way,, he must have a good personality and be well grounded, I'm uninterested whether he works or has money, all though it would be nice to be pampered now and again lol, as I said I'm not materialistic and these things don't really matter, I'm after a true love, a partner for life, a long, fulfilling, loving relationship.

I'm me and I won't change for anyone I would never let a guy try change me, I like who I am hahaha, my view is you take me as I am, I'm a realist, I'm not one of these fake ass people who say one thing and mean something completely different, with me you know exactly where you stand, I believe in being honest and straight to the point, sometimes it's gotten me in hot water with people, friends and family alike, I think it's best to tell the truth even if that truth hurts, I don't believe in beating around the bush and I prefer for others to be the same with me but it's lucky for me that I understand human nature because it's not always possible for others to be upfront and honest about what there actually thinking, I know not everyone is like me, I wouldn't say I was the most popular person in the world lol, many people don't always like my directness, however I can be tactful and polite about it, for the most part anyway lmao.

I don't consider myself to be a shallow or materialistic person, I strive to be the best I can be, I know some people tend to think that I am a little stuck up, to good for some people, I believe that if someone in you're life is pulling you down or holding you back they may not always have you're best intentions in mind for whatever reason, that's where I've sometimes felt it necessary to let friends go and walk away, It's not a case of being stuck up I'm just simply trying to better myself and live the life I was born to lead, sometimes you have to leave people behind, it's not always nice or pretty and sometimes you're not liked for it but at the same time you have to do what's best for you, be true to yourself that's what I say.


General details

Age 53
Sex Male
Sexuality Gay
Relationship Single
Ethnic Origins White
Home Location Flint, Wales, United Kingdom


Body Shape Large
Height 5.8" (173 cm)
Eye Color Blue
Hair Color Blonde
Tattoos None
Piercings None


Flexible Flirtatious Intellectual Loving Low Maintenance Open Minded Outgoing Practical Romantic Self Confident Sensitive Spontaneous Talkative

Looking for

Desired Activities

Friendship Relationship Chat Workout Partner Casual Other Activities


Interested in Men
Aged between 30 - 56


Lifestyle details

Lives Alone
Faith Agnostic
Has Children None
Wants Children No
Education School
Occupation Retired
Income Bracket Minimum Wage
Political Interests Non-conformist
Drinks Socially
Diet A careful diet
Smokes Never
Drugs Never

General interests

Camping Computers Cooking DIY Dining Out Movies Music Reading Shopping Surfing the Web Television Travelling Walking Wine Tasting

Music interests

Blues Classical Country Dance Disco Folk Pop RnB Soul

Sports interests

Bowling Cycling Gym Swimming Walking