@Eric-Ada is a 41 year old Gay Male from Ada, Oklahoma, United States of America. He is looking for Friendship, Relationship, Casual and Other Activities.

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I won't tell you that dating me would be easy. It won't. Life is messy and complicated and full of those crazy moments that make for great stories come family gatherings. That's not to say that all the chaos isn't worth the ride. It is. Every bit of it, from the so-bad-you-don't-think-you-can-recover events to the world-fading-away-and-it's-just-the-two-of-you moments. The trick is to find someone who knows that without those moments, life would be a boring Tunnel of Love ride with no surprises. I myself, prefer the crazy roller coaster that twists through a fun house.

Some people might call that drama. I call it LIFE. So let's get to living.

I like watching movies that move me, make me think and make me laugh out loud until I nearly pee on myself! I like books that scare the pants off me or make me imagine far-off worlds and people. I like music that touches my heart, strikes a chord, stirs my soul and makes me move my feet. I love food that causes heartburn for three days and runs people out of the kitchen from the toxic fumes! I like arguing with a hard-headed person - for the sake of the argument, not because I'm a pain. I love people who make me see the world in a different light! I love to chill out in front of the TV and I love to see nature in all it's glory. I like to watch sports and get all verbal and school spirit-y for my team! I like having a good time with my friends and I like having down time when it's just me. I like being with someone, breathing in their scent, staring at them when they don't think I'm looking and listening to them just be.

Headstrong and willful, I love a good argument, but only if it's of the witty, intelligent kind. Humor? It flies between sick & twisted (dark wit) to screwball (are you using that rubber chicken?) to slapstick (just watch me try to walk up a flight of stairs while talking) to verbal sparring (watch His Girl Friday with Cary Grant and you'll get the idea).


General details

Age 41
Sex Male
Sexuality Gay
Relationship Single
Ethnic Origins Native / Aboriginal
Location Ada, Oklahoma, United States of America


Body Shape Large
Height 6.2" (188 cm)
Eye Color Brown
Hair Color Black
Tattoos One or Two
Piercings A few


Flexible Intellectual Loving Open Minded Quiet Romantic Spiritual Spontaneous Stubborn Unconventional

Looking for

As far as who I'm looking for, I constantly find myself attracted to an ever-widening range of guys. From the geeky gamer to the burly bear to the weekend athlete to the (way past his prime) circuit "boy" (you know who you are, hahaha). I like a guy who doesn't have to play stupid to get the guy. A guy who can change a tire but still might flip out at the sight of a spider. A guy who's beautiful in my eyes, regardless of what the world thinks. Some one who's a walking contradiction - silly, serious, grounded, spontaneous...when it comes to a first date, think outside the box. I prefer something a little off-center than the old tried-and-true dinner and a movie. Don't get me wrong, I like said dinner & movie, but that's Date #3 or #4. I'm always up for hearing a local indie band, checking out your best friend's art show or having a slurpee under the stars (no dirty pun intended) while we make up our own constellations.

Desired Activities

Friendship Relationship Casual Other Activities


Interested in Men
Aged between 25 - 50


Lifestyle detailsLifestyle details

Lives Alone
Faith Spiritual
Has Children None
Wants Children Yes
Education University
Occupation Marketing & PR
Income Bracket Professional
Political Interests Liberal
Drinks Socially
Smokes Never
Drugs Never

General interests

Entertaining Movies Music Photography Reading Television Writing

Music interests

Dance Electronic House Indie Pop Rock Techno

Sports interests

American Football Baseball Basket Ball Gym

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