Welcome to my profile and thanks for your interest. (Please note that I am interested only in real-life meetings, not correspondence or fantasy. . I hope you will be as sincere as I am in being here.)
I will probably always be essentially a New Yorker, but in September '04 I moved to London, looking for new challenges and opportunities.
My friends consider me occasionally adorable, always loyal and compassionate, and goodlooking with a winning smile. I'm self-employed and professional.
I'm old-fashioned and non-scene, but lively and interested in the world around me. I have a good sense of humour and have gained a little bit of wisdom over time. I enjoy the performing arts, reading, shopping--I'm a native New Yorker, after all!--watching DVDs at home, and travelling, besides being open to new interests.
I have a good sense of humour and can see the surreal and absurd in every day life; however, I prefer serious people to guys who never stop kidding around.
Dating sites ask us to list what we want, almost as if we could order it on-line like everything else these days. As a result, we can become self-conscious as to how near or far we come to the other's described ideal. The fact is most meaningful relationships start with a cup of tea and a natter, and whatever develops organically from that point is up to the two consenting adults involved.
If you'd like to make contact, PLEASE HAVE A FACE PHOTO (free of sunglasses or headgear) or send me one via e-mail. These days there seems no dignified excuse for not having a clear photo available. Experience has taught me to ignore any messages from profiles without photos or the immediate offer of one. I don't wish to meet anyone who has a partner or a spouse.
My nine years of on-line dating make me think that too many men regard intimacy as a form of mutual exploitation. That is not what I am looking for. You will never regret being gentle or kind.
|Location||London, England, United Kingdom|
|Height||5.7" (170 cm)|
Artistic Flirtatious Loving Open Minded Outgoing Romantic Self Confident Sensitive Serious Sophisticated Spiritual Spontaneous Unconventional
Historically, I've chosen men who are either slender or athletic in build with cute or handsome faces. Angels generally appeal to me more than devils; I find shyness, sincerity and masculinity appealing. I value cosiness and home-life as much as passion in a relationship. It is my nature to be mongamous and, to be honest, I don't think much of open relationships. Eventually I'd like to have some nice guy's photo in a little frame on my desk. "Sorrows divided, joys multiplied" still makes sense to me as a reason to be close to another man.
My presence here reflects my desire for meeting local men in the flesh, so to speak. I find cam-to-cam contact and on-line 'chatting' ultimately unfulfilling.
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|Aged between||- 40|
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|Wants Children||Not Sure|
|Occupation||Health and Medicine|
|Diet||I eat everything|
Antiques Arts and Crafts Cooking Dining Out Dramatics Drawing Entertaining Gardening Movies Music Painting Reading Shopping Surfing the Web Television Travelling Walking Wine Tasting
Swimming Walking Yoga